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Accountability – Part 2


Shared by our Featured Writer, zombiedrew2 ” What is the one and only thing you have control over in your life? Your job? Nope. Your friends? Nope. Your kids? Uh, definitely nope. The only… Continue reading

Faithfulness-living with your choice


Shared by Ufuoma E ” We have a throwaway culture. When we’ve had enough of using, playing with or trying something, it gets thrown in the discard pile. Even our relationships suffer the… Continue reading

Accountability Part 1


Shared by our Featured Writer, zombiedrew2 ” When you think of someone who is “responsible”, what is the first thing that comes to mind? Often someone who is responsible is seen as someone who… Continue reading

The Golden Rule


Shared by our Featured Writer, zombiedrew2 ” I’ve long had an interest in interpersonal relationships, and I spend a fair bit of time thinking, reading and writing on the topic. Interpersonal relationships are simply… Continue reading

The perks of being the one left behind


Shared by D-Soul ” You deserve someone better. You’ll forget him eventually. Move on. He’s not worthy of your love. Those are just some of the lines I heard from my family and… Continue reading

The hard road to forgiveness


Shared by Ufuoma E ” The road to divorce was long and hard. I must have died a thousand deaths along the way. The first time was when he confessed to me what… Continue reading

It’s tough being a man in a man’s world


Shared by olsolomeoh ” It’s tough being a man in a man’s world. GIVE me daughters anytime. They might morph into alien-spawn undergoing exorcism during the hormone-abundant teens, but at least I don’t have… Continue reading

Emotional Walls


Shared by our Featured Writer, zombiedrew2 ” Over my last few posts I have been exploring attachment and emotional intimacy. Emotional intimacy is what brings couples together. We all want to feel loved and… Continue reading

I need substance


Shared by noraroars ” The hardest part of viewing the world through your own eyes is finding validation. What is true validation? What is a beautiful woman if no one told her she was… Continue reading

This is not an anti-man rant!


Shared by olsolomeoh ” Now, this may sound like an anti-man rant, and while it is a bit of a bitch-sesh aimed at blokes, I am only commenting on what I hope is a… Continue reading

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